Handmade gifts for Christmas

Xmas decorations handmade by Kay Vernon

"Be Creative & Give" (Number 5 of the Five Ways to Wellbeing)

This year colleagues at Powys Association of Voluntary Organisations, plus a couple of invited guests, tell us why they like to make gifts to give at Christmas. 
And never fear, if you’re short of ideas, they have plenty to try! 

Sarah Dale – Mental Health Individual Representative 

Knitted toys & crafts 

Art and craft are a huge part of my life. Creating beautiful things and pictures that inspire other people and bring a smile to their face is awesome! And is a productive use of my time which would otherwise be spent overthinking and worrying about various things in my life. Art and craft to me as a coping mechanism is a way of life :) 

I spend most of my time at home watching tv and knitting. This year I have knitted 6 animal toys to sell for the Samaritans. I also knit cat toys for the Cats Protection every year. Apart from knitting I love my Art. It a way of expressing myself in a nonverbal way as sometimes I struggle to do so. In one of my Art and Craft courses at Ponthafren Association run by Esther I made these cute and effective tea light holders. Drawing the trees on the tissue paper was one of the most relaxing experiences. In my papier mache class I have made some Christmas cat balls just because! It was an interesting but successful experiment! Ready for the ultimate cat Christmas! 

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Annie Watkins – Admin Support Officer

Christmas socks 

I love to knit. It is my happy place. After a long day there is nothing better than to sit down with my knitting, whether I am making something for me, or a loved one, it gives me joy. The possibilities of working with yarn are endless, the colours, weight and types of yarn means that it is impossible to resist. It is completely absorbing and helps me focus. 

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Kay Vernon – Senior Finance Officer 

Decorations & gifts 

I like to handmake Christmas presents for family and friends each year. It’s just so personal. I get a lot of fulfilment out of making pressies! I start in January ready for the next Christmas and make a lot of decorations too. Crafting is really relaxing – it keeps me busy and my mind occupied throughout the year. My favourite crafts are card-making, crochet, knitting, parchment craft, art and drawing. A good way to find out ideas and tips for presents and decorations is to join one of the many Facebook groups out there dedicated to your particular craft. 

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Janet Radford – Senior Officer Internal Services 

Pickled cucumbers 

I love to make presents for people for several reasons - the first one is that I think about the person when I make their gift – it’s bespoke to them - a gift of time as well! The second is that I worry about the impact we are having on the environment - homemade gifts are more sustainable and generally don't have much plastic and the third is related to consumerism and misplaced values - so many people worry about having to buy things they cannot afford and get into debt - homemade gifts by-pass all that completely. Recipe here. 

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Sue Newham – Engagement Officer, Health & Wellbeing team 

Caramelised red onion relish 

I really enjoy making jams, chutneys and relishes as gifts for people. At this time of year, Caramelised Red Onion Relish is superb with all those Christmas cheeses and cold meats. I used this recipe but adapted it, by leaving out the chilli and adding a glass of red wine too. You may have to cook it for a bit longer because you've added more liquid. Use your computer to design and print a nice looking label, and if you want to dress it up even more, cut a circle of fabric and use a rubber band to fix it to the top of the jar. Your friends and relatives will really appreciate this. Recipe here.

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Freda Lacey – Senior Officer, Health & Wellbeing team 

Truffles 

I try to make chocolate truffles at Christmas time for friends, family and neighbours. It’s so simple, and yet can be full of adventurousness in creatively adding things in! One year, I made all my family gifts instead of buying things. At the time, I was unemployed and didn’t have a lot of money. I told them they were getting chocolates and/or other things I’d make so asked them what they liked (particularly flavours of chocolate). 

I had requests from chilli chocolate to rum and raisin, to salted caramel… The beauty of this recipe is that anything can go in and hopefully turns out! My family loved them and in an inexpensive box, it made the gift unique. Recipe here. 

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Sketch for the Aberdyfi painting

Louisa Kerr – Mental Health Partnership Manager, Powys Teaching Health Board 

Artwork

Being creative and giving is one of the ‘5 Ways to Wellbeing’ and having learnt how following the ways can improve wellbeing I have been giving them a try. Thanks to the 5 ways I have rediscovered a long buried passion for being creative so I’m painting a landscape of Aberdyfi for my mum who was born and grew up there. I have really enjoyed painting for someone and whilst my original sketch felt like it could be a difficult task, it’s going well so far – but I know whatever it looks like in the end she will appreciate it. I can’t wait for her to open it! 

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Jen Hawkins – Information Officer (Health) Health & Wellbeing team 

Bath bombs 

Making your own bath bombs at Christmas can be a lovely way to share a gift of wellbeing. Ingredients for bath bombs are easy to find, all you need is some citric acid, bicarbonate of soda, some flower petals of your choice, a selection of essential oils and a lot of patience! Bath bombs as well as being wonderfully fragrant are a good way to ease any seasonal stress and tension and can help us relax. 

Essential oils of Lavender, (Lavandula angustifolia) Sweet Orange (Citrus sinensis) and Frankincense (Boswellia carteri) not only smell wonderful but have specific properties that help us to unwind and relax, promoting a healthy, balanced peace of mind and sense of wellbeing. 

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Sophia Bird – Principal Health Promotion Specialist, Powys Public Health team 

The triangle of giving 

This year I am encouraging my children (teenagers) to think about this triangle when planning their Christmas present buying for me. I have suggested they aim to give me a pledge to make a memory with me or make me something. Luckily they are both quite ‘crafty’ and artistic and I think it appeals to them because their money can go further. It appeals to me for the obvious reason – I get something meaningful from them.

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Parchment bookmark by Kay Vernon

World Mental Health Day 2018 - students, young people & mental health

Earlier this month we celebrated World Mental Health Day on Wednesday 10 October. The World Federation for Mental Health is the driver behind this important awareness day.

The theme this year was “young people and mental health in a changing world.” So what better place to raise awareness about caring for the emotional health and wellbeing of young people than the two college bases in Powys – Newtown in the North, and Brecon in the South. We worked closely with colleagues at NPTC Group of Colleges, which is one of the largest Further Education providers in Wales, to run an information event at each campus.

Brecon High School pupils on a visit to the Brecon college campus

The day was a great success. Rather than write a long blog post, I am posting photographs and feedback from some of those who attended to capture a flavour of what happened on the day.

Julia Gorman (Ponthafren Association), Claire Powell (Community Connector),
Jen Hawkins (PAVO), Sarah Dale (Individual Rep), and a student from the Newtown college campus

Jen Hawkins, Health & Social Care Information Officer, PAVO

It’s good to talk, especially when it comes to mental health. Emojis and cake provided the perfect way to start conversations around mental health at Newtown College as part of PAVO’s World Mental Health Day event.

Cake was definitely an added advantage with lots of people initially attracted by free cake to start their day but it soon proved a perfect way to begin to talk about feelings.

An Emoji wall of fame provided a great backdrop for students and staff to identify how they were feeling in a supportive, open way. Before long the wall was soon covered with a colourful range of post it notes that covered a whole spectrum of emotions. It was great to read all the positive comments, where people were feeling great, happy and excited but poignant to have people share that they felt broken, numb and worried or anxious. This was a good opportunity to point people in the right direction of supportive services such as the college counsellor and third sector organisations like Ponthafren Association.

Comments were also received in Arabic and Spanish, which just goes to show that no matter what language we may speak it’s good to talk about mental health.

Claire Powell, Community Connector - Newtown, Llanfair Caereinion, Montgomery

I was surprised at how well some of the students were able to express how they felt using just one word and it gets you thinking - do they have enough opportunity to express their true feelings in a safe and supportive environment..?? I work with adults over the age of 18 but the event really opened my eyes to the daily challenges faced by younger students, and also how important it is for them to know where to go for support.

It was fantastic to hear that so many students are already volunteering and are looking for more opportunities to do this to give back to the community. 

Lisa Harding & Debbie Rees, Children & Adolescent Mental Health Services

Lisa Harding, Team Leader North Powys, and Debbie Rees, Support Worker - Children & Adolescent Mental Health Services (CAMHS)

We felt the day was fantastic in relation to networking with other agencies, putting faces to names! So that we can communicate on a regular basis.

It was great to make contact with the young people of north Powys from the age of 16+. What we felt went well was the connection with the lecturers asking questions about the young people they support day-to-day in relation to their mental health, offering advice and support.

One of our service users came to see us while there, to say ‘thank you’ for all the help and support from CAMHS.

The day was positive and productive in nature.

Hazel Osborne, College Counselling Service, Newtown campus

Hazel Osborne, College Counselling Service, NPTC Newtown

It was great to see a presence of many local mental health services at this event.

Our students very much enjoyed the cake and engaged with the mood board. It felt an important chance to continue developing a normalisation of accessing these sorts of services and an opportunity for us to further deepen the students’ awareness of the counselling and support services available on site.

Danielle Lewis & Neil Rees, Detached Youth Work team, Powys County Council

Rosemary Denham, Student Services Manager, NPTC Group of Colleges

The day was really positive for our students. PAVO had invited the professional organisations, and our own Health and Social Care students decided to be involved as well. Having these young people taking part meant that it was easier for other students to engage in the event and speak with the outside organisations without feeling embarrassed. It was a very good mix.

Spin-offs included:

• The Newtown Health & Social Care students gave an on-the-spot donation to Ponthafren – this was money that had been proffered for the lovely cakes which they had provided themselves and were giving away at no cost.
• Our Enterprise Officer is running a project near to Christmas and the funds raised there will be given to a mental health charity.
• Our college subject tutors had the opportunity to network with professionals working in the mental health field, and arrangements have been made for talks to be given by the organisations to specific student groups in the coming weeks. 
• Our college counsellors were also able to discuss their work and referral pathways to outside agencies. 
• Our student welfare staff re-established a working relationship with the Powys Teaching Health Board C-card organisers and ensured a renewed supply of condoms.
   

Sophie Jones, PCSO, Brecon Neighbourhood Policing team

Emojiis on a blank wall prompted students to comment on their feelings – 62% said they were happy, 8% were hungry – and 32% expressed negative emotions (including being stressed, anxious, tired, paranoid, depressed, worried) – this highlighted the need for the college to do all we can to help with mental health awareness.

PAVO offered the opportunity to work with our Health and Social Care students on volunteering, and also mentioned the possibility of a work placement in Llandrindod Wells.

I was invited to feed back on the day to Louisa Kerr from Powys Teaching Health Board, Vanessa Young from the NHS Confederation, PAVO and staff from mental health services in Mid Wales .It was a great opportunity to reinforce the need for improved mental health services for young people.

Thanks again to PAVO, I also attended the NHS Wales/Powys Teaching Health Board workshop in Builth Wells to contribute to the Powys Sexual Health Improvement Plan about services available / needed for our young people.

Louisa Kerr (PTHB), Vanessa Young (Welsh Confederation), Owen Griffkin (PAVO), Rosemary Denham (NPTC Group), Melanie Davies (PTHB), Lucy Taylor (PAVO), Jolene Duggan (PTHB)

Gateway/Foundation students at Brecon College

• Good information given.
• Excellent day.
• Seeking awareness for students with mental health issues.
• Excellent advice on the stalls.
• Good advice given.
• Fun.
• Interesting.
• Helpful advice.
• Fun activities.
• Informative.
  
  

Kemal Keeble from Rekindle chatting to some of the students in Newtown

Kemal Keeble, Recovery Practitioner, Small Steps Project, Rekindle

It was really great to be a part of the World Mental Health Day at NPTC. It opened the door to many conversations about "what positive mental health means to many of the students" and insight into the work we carry out at Rekindle's The Small Steps Project. It was lovely to see so many young people getting involved and gaining a greater understanding about what services are available to them within the community they study and live in.

Suzanne Fairclough (R) and colleague from Sexual Health Services, Powys Teaching Health Board

Suzy Fairclough, Development Officer for Sexual Health & Support to Perinatal Mental Health, Powys Teaching Health Board

It was a pleasure to attend World Mental Health Day on the 10th October with information boards on Sexual Health Services and to have the opportunity to speak and hand out information to the young people on this subject and explain how Sexual Health links in with mental health, health and wellbeing. 

Abby Sims & Lorna Jones, Mid Powys Mind

Lorna Jones, Youth Worker, Mid Powys Mind

It was a good day with great networking and a privilege to meet young people who wish to make a difference with the outlook and positive attitude toward mental health. 

Lucy Taylor, Senior Officer Children & Young People, PAVO

Thank you to all the students and organisations that joined PAVO in making our World Mental Health Day celebrations with NPTC Colleges in Brecon and Newtown a success. It was so good to see everyone chatting about wellbeing, mental health and just how they were feeling that day. Our Emoji walls captured an image of "How are you feeling today?" 

We would be really pleased to know how you felt the day went and whether you would like to partner with PAVO on future events/ collaborative working? Comment in the box below, or contact us by emailing mentalhealth@pavo.org.uk or ringing 01597 822191.

Mental Health Awareness Week 2018

Stress, are we coping?

This year the theme for Mental Health Awareness Week (14 – 20 May), hosted by the Mental Health Foundation, is stress. Research has shown that two thirds of us experience a mental health problem in our lifetime, and stress is a key factor in this.

For many people stress is a part of everyday life, but do we really manage our stress effectively? By tackling stress, we can go a long way to tackle mental health problems such as anxiety and depression, and, in some instances, self-harm and suicide.

The Powys Mental Health Planning and Development Partnership, in collaboration with other partnerships across the county, is exploring how we can all tackle stress and help to improve our mental health. Stress is not a mental health problem itself but is a survival response to keep us safe. But it should not become a way of life. The Partnership asked its members what stress looks like for them and how they manage it.

How do you recognise stress?

• For me it’s about when the day to day things I usually cope with fine start eliciting a greater than normal response. So, maybe I am rushing around and hit my funny bone really hard on the door frame (never funny) and it makes me really anger or want to cry – when usually an expletive muttered under my breath will suffice. Those moments really stand out for me and I know there is something else going on. 
• Usually when I start to lose patience and things annoy me more than usual, particularly my husband! I know that I have been moaning a lot when he says things like ‘can you not ring your mum?’ which means he has done his best to support me but it I now requires a higher level of management. This ‘intervention’ usually works as I can take a step back and get some great advice from people who know me best however sometimes there are physical signs too.

What does stress look like for you?

• Personally, a sense of frustration, a loss of sense of humour and feeling powerless are symptoms I look out for.
• It’s like my emotional cooking pot is full.  There is no room for anything else.  And when something else does happen my emotions can spill over much more easily with less of a filter than they usually have. If I'm stressed I may feel like I have too many things to do and not enough time, so I don’t seem to stop or get any time to myself.  That makes it hard to unwind which can then affect my sleep, making me feel worse in the morning and on the cycle can go unless I do something about it.
• It usually presents in anger / frustration towards a loved one.

What do you do to combat it?

• The most important technique for me to combat stress is to recognise the early warning signs and to take immediate action.  I generally use ‘Resilience’ as a coping mechanism.  This can be by taking a short break, speaking with friends and colleagues or exercising.  For me, it’s being able to adapt to changing circumstances.
• Exercise – specifically going for a cycle ride.
• Learning how to breathe properly. This sounds weird but if I take a minute to close my eyes, breathe in though my nose for 7 seconds and then slowly out through my mouth for 8 this really helps. Walking the dog in the countryside or at the coast makes me feel good too.
• In the past exercising whilst listening to loud music (on headphones) has also helped – this is a good standby in the winter when severe cold or rain encourage stresses to multiply because I can’t get outside in the garden. There are loads of NHS exercise classes for beginners on YouTube and they don’t all involve balancing on a yoga mat with hardly any clothes on looking like a Downward Dog.

What shouldn’t you do?

• Think it will go away if I don’t do anything about it.
• Bottle up worries / concerns – share with others for discussion / solutions.
• Panic. Life is hard. There will be stress in life, embrace it as a natural thing, accept it as a part of you and don’t see it as a failure to cope with things.
• Buy five large chocolate cakes and eat them all at one sitting!! Buy a one way ticket to El Calafate, however tempting it might seem at the time… Scream at your line manager that you hate your job and you’re leaving right now, never to return. In other words…. Don’t be too impulsive. Take time to step back, assess the situation, seek help if that’s appropriate, and then make a plan of action to address the cause of the stress. Then collect empty plastic bottles to turn into mini cloches to keep the mice off the peas and beans…

Do you do any of the Five Ways to Wellbeing to combat stress? If so, which one works for you and why?

• Connect – unwind with friends and husband – talk things through – doing something nice together. Be active – running and walking. Take notice – being in nature.
• Be active. Being fortunate to live in Powys, the opportunities for exercise throughout our glorious surroundings is endless. Being able to walk the Black Mountains, Brecon Beacons or the River Wye footpaths. Being able to get away from things through walking either with our dog or with family is calming and fulfilling. I find exercise an important part of my physical and mental well-being.
• Being creative - More recently I have been getting creative, remembering how much I used to love Art in school I thought I’d give it a go now. Finding the time to paint is good because I’m preparing to make a relaxing bit of space and time. I get everything I want to done and the whole time I’m doing this I’m looking forward to creating something.

What would be your top tips for managing stress?

• Exercise – it’s hard to motivate yourself to start but if you can find a way to build it into your weekly routine it can be hugely effective.  Particularly if you can get out into Nature.  For many people exercise seems to use up excess emotion leaving you feeling calmer and more in control. Nature has been shown to have many beneficial effects, not just on our mental health, but also on our physical health. We evolved in Nature (green trees and soft curved lines) not urban environments, and we relax and feel better when surrounded by it.
• Do something you love and get lost in it – be it football, craft, reading…. You will be totally absorbed by it for a while so you don’t think of anything else.

• As a Police Inspector, I must be accessible to colleagues and a point of contact and support when people are under stress.  I must recognise incidents which could have a negative impact on a person’s well-being and ensure that the correct support intervention is provided.
• I personally rely on making a list of things to do and I then prioritise what must be done first.  This helps me to turn what appear to be unmanageable tasks into something less formidable.
• Try and get away from whatever you are working on for 10 – 15 minutes at lunch time – go for a short walk, run or cycle – whatever takes your mind of what you are currently doing!
• When you wake up in the morning (and go to bed at night) think of 2 – 3 things that you are really grateful for.
• Be as kind to yourself as you possibly can. Imagine you are another person (or animal if that’s easier) you love and care for. You want to do the best you possibly can for that person/animal. So what would you do? I am often guilty of putting myself under further pressure if I’m stressed, as if it’s all my fault and I need to suffer further! But whilst I might sometimes be responsible (I can’t grow 30 of my favourite vegetables successfully and fit everything else in my life, but maybe 10 would work) sometimes the stress has an external source. Pluck up courage and talk to anyone involved in making your life stressful, or, if that’s not possible, try and stay out of that person’s way!

Any other comment?

• Laugh. With colleagues. At that very funny radio comedy. At your own jokes even if nobody else thinks they’re the slightest bit funny. When the cat’s head gets stuck in a margarine pot (but do rescue that cat promptly).  When you all try a new sport and end up on your backsides, your head, in fancy dress or covered in apricot jam…. Be weird and wonderful and wacky sometimes, because you can (only if it’s legal though!) Just because life is hard sometimes, remember to take a breather and HAVE FUN!!

Tell us what you do to relieve stress in the comments box below.

Together for Mental Health is the Welsh Government’s 10 year strategy to improve mental health and well-being in Wales.

In Powys, there is a Mental Health Planning and Development Partnership in place to deliver the strategy locally and prioritise activity to meet the needs of Powys communities. One of its main objectives is to build strength and resilience, promoting mental and emotional health and wellbeing of individuals and communities across the county. 

Thank you to Mary Griffiths (Mid Powys Mind), Inspector Brian Jones (Dyfed Powys Police), Louisa Kerr (Powys Teaching Health Board), Jackie Newey (Powys Association of Voluntary Organisations) and Joe Wellard (Powys County Council) for their contributions to this blog post.